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Make dinnertime matter: simple and fun conversation starters for families

May 8, 2018 by Meg 9 Comments

These printable conversation starters for families are a perfectly simple–yet effective–way for families to make-over dinnertime and build stronger relationships. These printable conversation starters for families are a perfectly simple--yet effective--way for families to make-over dinnertime and builder stronger relationships. Dinnertime at our house is not always pleasant. I wish I could say that every night we all sit down together and enjoy a healthy, home-cooked meal while chatting happily about our days and the mysteries of the universe…or something like that.

The dinner dilemma

In reality, dinnertime often involves the kids complaining about the “green stuff” I cruelly placed in the healthy, home-cooked meal, and there is a lot of poking each other with forks and who knows what else. Lots of distractions during the meal lead to comments like…

“Use your fork, please. Soup is not a finger food.”

“Let’s wait until after dinner to have Alexa sing Jingle Bells.”

“For goodness sake, sit down and eat!”

Why dinnertime matters

Lately, I’ve been searching for a way to change our not-so-ideal dinnertime tradition. I hate having dinner feel like a cross between a circus and a boxing match. I want dinner to be a time that bonds our family together, not a time that makes us all want to run away from the table as quickly as possible. Our days are so busy; I feel strongly that we need to carve out and protect this small sliver of time each day to be together.

There are endless studies that support the idea that family dinnertime is important. The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) at Columbia University says that children who regularly eat dinner with their parents are less likely to become involved in risky behaviors (drugs, alcohol, etc.) and more likely to have good grades and better overall health. In the crazy–sometimes scary–world in which we live, I want to use dinnertime as a way to protect and prepare my children for the world they will face outside our home.

But how can dinnertime with fidgety, picky young kids be made into a positive experience?

Family conversation starters on plate at dinner table

The simple dinnertime activity that worked wonders

A few weeks ago, I tried something new that worked wonders for our dinnertime experience. My husband was working late, so I was holding down the fort on my own. I was mostly just trying to survive until bedtime…you know those days. As we sat down to dinner, however, I had a thought. Earlier in the day I had read an article about a mom who had interviewed her children and recorded their funny answers to a set of questions. One of them popped in my head and I thought, dinnertime is the perfect time to try this out.

Once I got everyone dished up, I told my boys that I was going to interview them during dinner. They seemed intrigued by the idea, so I continued.

I asked, “If you could open a restaurant, what kind of food would you cook and serve?”

My five-year-old responded that he would have a restaurant that would serve real food to good guys, but the food would be poisonous for bad guys. A little macabre, perhaps, but creative.

My three-year-old said he would want to run a Cafe Rio (a Mexican chain restaurant in our area). He wanted to make quesadillas for everyone.

We talked more about their restaurants, and they even asked me what kind of restaurant I would choose (a little cafe with delicious soups, sandwiches and a killer baked goods case…just in case you’re wondering). We were laughing, sharing ideas, and ACTUALLY BONDING. Bonus: in the midst of all of this, they even ate their dinner!

Now, I know I’m not the first person to suggest the idea of conversation starters for families at the dinner table. However, I hadn’t ever used them with my own kids. I always figured they were too young. But they loved it!

I was so encouraged by the result of my little experiment that I have started asking interview questions most nights. Now I’m looking forward to dinnertime rather than dreading all the complaints. Not that the complaints about my choice of “green stuff” have ended completely (that’s probably too much to hope for), but our dinners have certainly become more enjoyable for everyone.

Now my boys even anticipate the activity and excitedly ask, “What’s our question of the day?”

Do you want to make over your own dinnertime?

I’ve compiled a list of our favorite conversation starters and created free printable cards for you to use! They are geared especially for young kids because many of the ones I found online were better suited to older children and adults. I wanted to create something especially for families with toddlers and young kids, so a lot of the questions play to young kids’ strength: imagination.

Simply click below to download, print, and cut apart a set of 48 conversation starters for young families. These are the very questions I’ve been asking my kids over the past several weeks, along with a bunch I’m planning to ask them in the future.

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FREE PRINTABLE CONVERSATION STARTERS

printable conversation cards for families with young kids

Happy eating!

Related: Teaching your toddler manners: 3 rules we live by

How do you make dinnertime meaningful for YOUR family?

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Comments

  1. Aditi Wardhan Singh

    May 8, 2018 at 7:17 am

    Dinner time is certainly an important opputunity to utilize in connecting with family. You brought me some great insight.

    Reply
  2. Harmony, Momma To Go

    May 8, 2018 at 7:20 am

    This is BEYOND perfect for my family because we always play these types of verbal games at dinner – and to avoid asking Alexa to fart (or other things) since “she” lives in our dining room!

    Reply
    • Meg

      May 8, 2018 at 2:07 pm

      Oh my, PLEASE let no one teach my boys that Alexa can fart…or I’ll never hear the end of it. Ha! My little guy usually just asks Alexa to play Jingle Bells…or Ghostbusters. Kids are weird–and funny! Hope the conversation starters can change things up for you. 🙂

      Reply
  3. Belle

    May 8, 2018 at 10:45 am

    Dinnertime is of absolute importance in our family. These conversation starters are great!

    Reply
    • Meg

      May 8, 2018 at 2:06 pm

      Thanks, Belle! Hope you can use them!

      Reply
  4. Leigh Suznovich

    May 8, 2018 at 5:35 pm

    I totally agree, having family dinners is so important. I LOVE these conversation starters. Our big thing growing up was my parents asked what the best and worst part of my day was and that has always stayed with me too. Instead of just asking how my day was, it teased out concrete answers about what was good and bad about my day.

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    • Meg

      May 17, 2018 at 8:47 pm

      I love that idea! And I love that it opens up a conversation about the good AND the bad.

      Reply
  5. Antonia

    May 9, 2018 at 9:05 am

    This is such a cute idea! I think it is especially nice to get kids to think deeper and more creatively!

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    • Meg

      May 17, 2018 at 8:46 pm

      Thanks, Antonia! It’s been really fun for me to get a glimpse inside their creative little minds.

      Reply

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